For more than 20 years, John Gray’s Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus has helped couples deepen their intimacy and rejuvenate their love lives. Men and women, it revealed, communicate so differently, we might as well be from different planets. By learning to speak each other’s language, millions of people dramatically improved, even saved their relationships.
But the world has changed…
You can go after the job you want…and get it! You can take the job you have…and improve it! You can take any situation you’re in…and make it work for you! Carnegie’s seminal book would be conspicuous by its absence if were absent from any self-respecting top 100 book list – and for very good reason.
There really is no excuse..!
On the surface this may appear like any number of other “pick-up” type books out there on the market, but don’t be fooled. This is an extremely value packed book, with theoretical and practical advice on personal AND business relationships. As the title suggests, his book is geared largely towards men, but Wayne has created something of great value to both sexes and will prove useful to anyone looking for, or who is already engaged in a romantic relationship. Whether you are straight, gay or bi, Wayne explains the fundamentals of attraction, how to uncover and maximise it and how to maintain it over a lifelong period. ‘The Coach’ doesn’t discriminate or judge – he simply gives advice on how to get what you want without manipulation or tedious and potentially damaging game playing tactics.
Drawing on influences including Dale Carnegie, Wayne Dyer and Tony Robbins among others, the book is packed with advice on knowing how to attract and keep the one you want – and just as importantly, when to walk away and find that special someone elsewhere. If you can scratch below the testosterone covered surface, the youtube channel is also a great resource, and frequently hilarious too!
One for the girls…!
“There’s nothing more powerful than being in a relationship with a guy and having him do exactly what you want while he thinks it was his idea. (This is important, as you’ll see. He needs to think he is the one in the driver’s seat, even though you actually are.)
This book is not about becoming someone you’re not or turning your boyfriend into a spineless manslave. It’s about your empowerment, about taking back what’s yours. No man should ever be able to play games with you, to take you for granted, to treat you even a tiny bit less than you deserve. By the time you’ve finished this book, this will all be part of your past.
Are you ready? Then hit the buy button at the top of this page and start your high value woman journey right away!” The Author.
In Attached, Levine and Heller trace how evolutionary influences continue to shape who we are in our relationships today. According to attachment theory, every person behaves in relationships in one of three distinct ways: “anxious” people are often preoccupied with their relationships and tend to worry about their partner’s ability to love them back. “Avoidant” people equate intimacy with a loss of independence and constantly try to minimize closeness. “Secure” people feel comfortable with intimacy and are usually warm and loving. Attached guides listeners in determining what attachment style they and their mate (or potential mates) follow. It also offers a wealth of advice on how to navigate relationships more wisely, given a listener’s attachment style and that of his or her partner. An insightful look at the science behind love, Attached offers a road map for building stronger, more fulfilling connections.
This controversial e-book phenomenon became a best-seller and landed its author, a certified marriage and family therapist, on The O’Reilly Factor and the Rush Limbaugh radio show. Dr. Robert Glover has devoted his career as a psychotherapist to freeing men from what he was dubbed the “Nice Guy Syndrome”-trying too hard to please others while neglecting their own needs, thus causing unhappiness and resentfulness. It’s no wonder that unfulfilled Nice Guys lash out in frusteration at their loved ones, claims Dr. Glover. He explains how they can stop seeking approval and start getting what they want in life, by presenting the information and tools to help them ensure their needs are met, to express their emotions, to have a satisfying sex life, to embrace their masculinity and form meaningful relationships with other men, and to live up to their creative potential.
Do you feel like you are too nice?
Sherry Argov’s Why Men Love Bitches delivers a unique perspective as to why men are attracted to a strong woman who stands up for herself. With saucy detail on every page, this no-nonsense guide reveals why a strong woman is much more desirable than a “yes woman” who routinely sacrifices herself. The author provides compelling answers to the tough questions women often ask: Why are men so romantic in the beginning and why do they change? Why do men take nice girls for granted? Why does a man respect a woman when she stands up for herself?
Thomas W. McKnight & Robert H. Philips
This book presents dozens of techniques designed to help you win the love of that special someone. With each tactic, you’ll find yourself becoming more enthusiastic, confident, and eager to approach the person of your dreams in an effort to win his or her love. Then, for those who have already found a romantic partner but have lost or are in danger of losing that person, the authors present tactics for winning back a lost love. The dream is in sight–and Love Tactics is all you need to make that dream a reality.
There’s a marketplace for sex and love, and you’re in it. In Dollars and Sex, economist Marina Adshade converts economic theory into a sexy science by applying the principles of supply and demand and other market forces to matters of love and libido. As she does in her hugely popular blog of the same name, Adshade unlocks the mysteries behind our actions, thoughts, and preferences using engaging research, economic analysis, and humor. The end result is a fascinating look at just how central the interplay of libido, gender, love, power, and economic forces is to the most important choices we make in our lives. Ultimately she shows that every option, every decision, and every outcome in matters of sex and love is better understood through economics.
Is it natural to be faithful to one person for life? Do alternatives to monogamy lead to better relationships and greater happiness? Can you keep passion and romance from fading over time?
Strauss set out on a quest for answers. It took him from Viagra-laden free-love orgies to sex addiction clinics, from cutting-edge science labs to modern-day harems and, most terrifying of all, to his own mother and his family’s secrets. What he discovered changed everything he knew about love, sex, relationships and, ultimately, himself. The Truth may have the same effect on you.